We hear things like "if you love something then fight for it" and "if you love something set it free,if it comes back it was yours and if it doesn't then it was never meant to be". But we can't just go out and blindly follow these clichés that we hear, because it really is determined on a case-by-case, moment by moment, relationship by relationship, basis. I had a situation with me and an ex and I decided I still loved them and I wanted to fight for us but what I was fighting for was something that wasn't there anymore. And I've just recently been in another situation where I hurt somebody and I love them, but I know that it's probably time to let them go in an effort not to hurt their heart anymore. So just remember although we hear so much about love and about trust and about fighting and determination it is all relative. Your heart gives you the emotion but your brain has to tell you how to act on it.
~Katy
